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Archives for October 2019

Oct 18

Mistakes Men Make When Paying Alimony

Common Mistakes Men Make With Alimony

For many people, going through a divorce or separation can be taxing, both emotionally and financially. Many men are often required to pay their ex-spouses alimony to support them, but only 3 percent of the 400,000 people receiving alimony are men. Unfortunately, there are a few common mistakes that men who are required to pay alimony often make.

Hiding or Spending Money

In an effort to reduce what they have to pay to their spouses, many men opt for hiding their money in other accounts or spending the funds that they already have to reduce the spousal support they will have to give to their exes. These men are still required to pay more because the rate is based on an individual’s income rather than how much money is sitting in his bank account. Those who are caught diverting part of their earnings will hurt their credibility. It’s best to pay the required amount and play it safe to avoid having it affect your financial state long term.

Failing to Obtain Legal Representation

Many people don’t understand how complicated and rigorous the process can be when heading to court for an alimony case. Many men overlook the need for the assistance of a lawyer. Without the help of an attorney, it can mean having to pay more in spousal support than necessary. A lawyer can inform an individual of his rights and could help lessen the impact of his financial loss after the divorce is finalized. A legal professional will work hard to defend his or her client and evaluate the details and facts of the situation to determine how much the other party needs to maintain his or her lifestyle. With the help of an attorney, it can also be easier to navigate the process and know what to expect due to the professional’s experience and knowledge.

Choosing Lump-Sum Payments

It can be easy to assume that choosing to pay a lump sum to the other individual can be more convenient when paying alimony. Some people think that this will allow them to pay the least amount of money or that it can help them get out of the situation quickly and move on with their life. Although you may want to wipe your hands of the divorce, it can cost you more to pay money up front rather than over a period of several years. Long-term payments that are made are often more affordable because the agreement can always be terminated. If the wife ends up remarrying another person or moves in with another individual, then it is grounds for discontinuing the support that is provided by the former husband.

Failing to Specify Grounds of Termination

Issues often occur when the grounds of termination for the alimony are not specified and are vague. In the agreement, specific language needs to be used, which can include if the man’s financial situation changes in the future or if one of the parties remarries. It’s important to use language that is specific to avoid confusion. Strong language needs to be used in the paperwork to ensure that both parties understand the terms and that the person paying alimony is protected if he ever seeks to terminate the agreement.

A Lack of Self-Care

Taking care of yourself after going through a divorce and starting to pay the spousal support payments is necessary to avoid becoming bitter and overly angry at your ex. Although it’s not always easy to pay alimony long term, it can be challenging to make informed decisions and think clearly when you’re upset. It’s best to seek the help of a counselor or therapist to help you maintain your emotional well-being and continue to protect yourself with each decision that is made. It will also make it easier to move on from the situation and look forward to the future.

The Law Office of Joanne Kleiner is here to assist you if you have a legal situation involving payment of alimony. With the help of our practice, we’ll make it easier to know how to protect yourself and reduce the impact when going through a divorce. Call us in Jenkintown at (215) 886-1266 for the assistance you need during this trying time.

Oct 15

How to Get a Divorce Quickly

Ways to Quickly Finalize a Divorce

Getting a divorce can be an emotionally trying time for both parties involved as the marriage comes to an end. The risk of divorce is between 42-45%, which means almost half of all married couples have to endure the process. If you want to move on with your life and get a divorce quickly, there are a few critical steps to take.

Put Everything in Writing

All agreements need to be put into writing to ensure that no one changes his or her mind or goes back on his or her word whether it involves dividing assets or child custody. Creating a written agreement can prevent delays and complications even if you’re getting along with one another. It’s also necessary to collect specific documents to finalize the divorce. You’ll need to obtain your children’s birth certificates, your marriage certificate, the prenup agreement if there is one, your mortgage papers, portfolios and joint bank accounts. By staying organized, you can save extra time and avoid additional conflict.

Consider a Collaborative Law Divorce

Collaborative law divorce is one of the types of divorces available and can allow you to reach agreements outside of court. Not only could it make the process smoother and quicker, but it could also save you money. Similar to mediation, it involves a third party and includes negotiations to finalize the divorce. You won’t have to worry about the decisions that are made being imposed by the court. It can take place in an informal setting and include an honest exchange of information. Each person will need to hire his or her own attorney. Communicate to the legal representative what you want, but keep in mind that you’ll still need to compromise and remain flexible during the negotiation process. A licensed mediator may also need to be used if it becomes difficult to reach agreements. The process of a collaborative law divorce also includes meeting with other professionals, like child therapists and financial advisors, to receive additional information for your situation.

Remain Honest

Many people are prone to bending the truth while getting a divorce as a way to protect themselves. Unfortunately, a lack of transparency can be detrimental to your case if you fail to remain honest with your ex and his or her lawyer. You’ll need to completely disclose all your financial information and avoid moving money around or hiding it. If you’re caught lying, you can lose custody of your children and even some of the assets that are in the process of being divided.

Keep the Children in Mind

It can be easy to neglect kids while getting a divorce because many people focus on their own pain and trauma, which can lead to issues that lengthen the process of getting a divorce. Children can also experience the same effects, which makes it necessary to keep them in mind with each decision that is made when you’re separating from your spouse. Their well-being should be the top priority when working out the details of the child custody arrangement or dividing assets. It’s also important to avoid complaining about your spouse, which can negatively affect your kids and how they view the other parent. Consider investing in a therapist for both you and your children to ensure you can heal and move on quickly.

Make Communication a Priority

Although your marriage may have deteriorated, it doesn’t mean that you can’t engage in proper communication with your former spouse. Working together to complete the divorce can help avoid tension and conflict. Your spouse will be more willing to negotiate if he or she already has been communicating with you. Reaching an agreement on some of the main aspects of the divorce can allow it to be finalized more quickly.

Contact the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner in Jenkintown at (215) 886-1266 to find out more about how you can get divorced quickly. With the help of a family attorney, you can learn more about your rights and have the assistance of a legal professional who can help you navigate the process.

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