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Archives for October 2020

Oct 24

Distance Learning and Co-Parenting During COVID-19

How Remote Learning Can Impact Co-Parenting

Over 7.8 million people in the United States have contracted COVID-19 as of mid-October 2020, grinding much of normal life to a halt. Though children have largely resumed school remotely, this change has presented many challenges to co-parents. Discussing these challenges is a must for those who want to successfully navigate the crisis.

Basic Disruptions

Some of the most common distance learning disruptions for co-parents are among the most obvious. These are the issues that are going to wreak havoc with the careful balancing that is necessary for co-parenting, and they will generally have to be solved through the efforts of each parent. Such disruptions include the children no longer taking the bus to and from a parent’s home, children not being able to see the usual babysitters because of social distancing requirements, or even difficulties that come from having to use technology that is unfamiliar to one or both of the parents.

The truth is that education is rarely an easy topic for co-parents, even when they are on the same page, so there will have to be changes made to daily life that won’t necessarily impact the existing parenting plan. It may be necessary for one or both parents to reach out to one another (or a divorce lawyer) to discuss new solutions or make adjustments that could have a minor impact on the plans that have already been put in place during prior discussions.

Responsibilities and Rights

More pressing are those disruptions that are going to impact the responsibilities and rights of the parents as put forth in a parenting agreement. Distance learning is going to put a significant amount of stress on all parties involved because it is going to require an entirely new type of parental decision-making to succeed. Parents will be forced to make educational decisions every day that simply might not be covered in the plans that were put in place when custody was first decided.

One of the biggest decisions that will have to be made will occur when, and if, school districts open. If parents are given a choice to send their kids back or keep them at home, it’s not always necessarily clear how individuals who share joint physical and legal custody will make that decision. Parents won’t be able to split the decision in this case, and even if they could, doing so would be ineffective. The basic right to decide where your child goes to school may well be disrupted by this pandemic.

Ability and Presence

Distance learning will also bring with it a major parenting change due to the amount of time the impacted children will be at home. If your child is a distance learner, he or she will need someplace to do schoolwork and study. Co-parents must now decide if they have living situations that are conducive to this kind of education and what’s going to happen if either parent goes back to working in person while the children are still going to school online.

A parent who typically has custody on the weekends, for example, may not necessarily be too impacted. Parents who tend to switch custody weekly or by the semester, on the other hand, are going to have to figure out whether their children can adequately learn as they switch back and forth. School does tend to give a certain sense of stability to children who move between homes, and the lack of stability is going to have an impact on the entire family. Without a clear plan in place, this can quickly become chaotic and disruptive to the lives of all who are involved.

Quarantine and Custody Challenges

Who gets custody during a quarantine? What happens if a child is forced to social distance because of an impacted family member and cannot travel to the other parent’s house? These are important questions that don’t have easy answers. Although people need to follow the laws surrounding public safety and use common sense, there’s no doubt that parents are going to see their custody dates disrupted anytime a child is forced to isolate for two weeks. Given that these aren’t just questions of custody but of safety, one must expect the discussions here to be quite serious. Unfortunately, there are unlikely to be any easy answers.

Distance learning is going to cause problems for most co-parents even if they are small ones. Anything relating to the COVID-19 pandemic will eventually lead to a reevaluation of plans, and custody arrangements are no exception. If you need help with custody arrangements or other family matters, make sure to contact the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner to consult a divorce lawyer in Jenkintown, Pennsylvania, either by phone at (215) 886-1266 or email via our contact page.

Oct 20

Don’t Rush Into a COVID-19 Divorce

Ready to Divorce After Quarantining? Consider These Three Things First

When U.S. cities and states began implementing COVID-19 quarantines in March, many relationship analysts predicted that marriages would suffer under the strain. Now it appears that gloomy forecast could be coming true. A recent online survey found that 31% of couples believe the quarantine caused irreparable harm to their relationship.

It’s No Surprise Divorce Rates Are Up

Family law attorneys and marriage counselors say it’s easy to understand why the quarantine was hard on relationships. The hustle and bustle of everyday life made it easy for some couples to ignore relationship warning signs. However, once they were forced to spend weeks or months in a confined space together, they could no longer escape their relationship problems. Add stresses like financial worries, unemployment fears, boredom and health anxieties to the mix, and many couples were pushed to the breaking point. Internet statistics show that divorce-related web searches spiked during the lockdown period, and divorce attorneys across the country are reporting an uptick in divorce inquiries compared to previous years.

If your marriage suffered during the pandemic, you may be ready to call it quits. However, there are three important things you should consider before making your divorce legal.

1. Is This Is Really the End?

Divorce can be a long, disruptive and expensive event. If there is any chance that you can reconcile with your partner and work toward a happy marriage, you may benefit from doing so. Marriage counseling could help you and your spouse resolve conflicts and get your relationship back on track. Many therapists offer virtual sessions, which is ideal for couples who are still in quarantine or want to maintain social distancing. However, not all marriages can be saved. If you believe your relationship is beyond repair, it’s better to end things and move on. You can start the process by contacting a Pennsylvania divorce lawyer and scheduling a consultation.

2. Understand That Your Life Will Change

Once you decide to divorce, you need to understand that your life will never be the same. The end of a marriage marks the beginning of a new life. Some of the changes will be good, but some could be unexpected and painful. For example, you may feel relieved when your partner moves out of the family home, but you might also find it difficult to maintain the property on your own. Meanwhile, you may love the peace and quiet that comes with separation, but you might struggle with your new identity as a single person or find that you lose friends over the split. Divorce causes many conflicting emotions and unforeseen social changes, and you need to be prepared for all the ways it could impact your life. A divorce lawyer might be able to help you identify some of these changes and make sure they are addressed during settlement negotiations.

3. Get Your Finances in Order

Even in the best of times, divorce is expensive. However, the COVID-19 pandemic could add an extra layer of financial risk. The threat of unemployment, rising health care costs and depleted retirement accounts could make it difficult to fairly divide assets. Because of this, it is essential that you fully understand your financial situation, including your income, assets and liabilities, before you enter divorce negotiations.

You need to create a realistic post-divorce budget and determine how you will pay for it on a single income. It might be necessary to change jobs, move into a smaller home, reduce discretionary spending or sell assets to stay within your means. Whatever the situation, having a clear financial picture will make it easier for you to negotiate a fair divorce settlement. It will also help you set realistic expectations for your post-divorce life.

The Law Office of Joanne Kleiner could help you navigate your divorce during the COVID-19 pandemic and offer essential advice on asset division, child custody, child support, spousal support and other important divorce legal issues. To set up a consultation, please contact us through our website or call our Jenkintown office at (215) 886-1266.

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