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Jan 23

Here’s Why Married Couples Delay Divorce Until the New Year

Reasons to Put Off Divorce Until New Year Rolls Around

Divorce agreement sales from March to June 2020 rose 34% from the same three-month period in 2019. The American Family Survey, a national survey held in part by Brigham Young University, found that 34% of married people said the COVID-19 pandemic increased stress in their marriages. Despite these alarming statistics, early state reports indicate that year-to-year divorce rates are down — are couples waiting for 2021 to file for divorce?

Keeping Children in Mind

Children look forward to Christmas as the most magical time of year. One poll found that 48% of respondents under the age of 18 consider Christmas their favorite holiday. Although it might feel like kids don’t value Christmas for the right reasons, children should never be robbed of a great Christmastime experience.

It’s true that children in split families can look forward to two sets of presents. After a divorce, parents typically need months to get settled into their new lives. Initiating divorce proceedings before the new year can ruin the magic of Christmas for children. This is arguably the No. 1 reason why waiting for the new year is the best time to get a divorce.

Holidays Are Filled With Emotions

As you already know, kids love Christmas. Many adults look forward to the holidays, too. Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s Eve offer back-to-back-to-back opportunities to take time off from work, visit family members, and enjoy countless home-cooked dishes.

Starting in early to mid-November, society collectively gears up for the holidays. City governments put up Thanksgiving and Christmas decorations around town. Advertisers run ads that mention the holidays. Social media fills up with mentions and pictures of fun, family-friendly holiday activities.

Even if you personally don’t celebrate these holidays, there’s arguably no way to avoid festivities. The holidays are typically associated with happiness, joy, and cheer, and breakups and divorces during Christmastime can evoke particularly negative emotions.

By agreeing to postpone divorce until the new year, you set yourself up for a much less stressful holiday season.

End-of-Year Divorces Can Lead to Unexpected Expenditures

The holidays are inextricably tied to consumer spending. Since you like making family members, friends, and co-workers feel special, you want to buy them nice gifts. Although you might not spend too much on each gift, the costs eventually add up.

According to the National Retail Federation’s annual holiday spending survey, the average American shopper plans to spend $998 on gifts and other holiday-related items.

Well over half of all married couples use the same bank account. It’s easy to unexpectedly spend more money than you initially planned during the holidays. During a divorce, however, soon-to-be ex-spouses may go on spending sprees just to spite their partners.

If you’re contemplating when to get a divorce, saving money is likely one of your greatest concerns. Avoiding a divorce around Christmas is a surefire way to save money.

Splitting Year-End Bonuses

Many workers receive year-end bonuses as a means of incentivizing high performance. Typically, employers need end-of-year sales data to determine whether employees receive bonuses or not.

If you receive your bonus before getting divorced, your spouse will likely be entitled to half of it. In most cases, after you formally file for divorce, you don’t have to share your earnings with your partner. If you’re expecting a big bonus, that’s yet another reason to delay your divorce until January.

Let a Divorce Lawyer Help You Through Your Divorce

Divorce is usually a difficult process. Fortunately, waiting for the new year can make divorce a little bit easier. Keep these benefits of delaying divorce in mind while assessing your own situation.

If you’re currently considering divorce or have recently been asked for one, we’d love to speak with you. Here at the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner, we focus on family law and divorce proceedings. Although divorce is notorious for being a long, difficult process, it doesn’t have to be. Our goal is to make the divorce process as seamless as possible.

The Law Office of Joanne Kleiner is located in Jenkintown, Pennsylvania. To schedule a confidential consultation with divorce lawyer Joanne Kleiner, give us a call at (215) 886-1266 today. You can also fill out our secure online intake form to get started.

Jan 19

Co-Parent Relocation With Your Child After a Pennsylvania Divorce

Judges Approve Relocations That Benefit Children

Anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher, Ph.D., reports that divorce within eight years of getting married results from disappointment, unmet expectations, financial problems, substance abuse, or even physical or emotional abuse. Divorce impacts your children psychologically, physically, academically, and behaviorally. Your children need a strong family, support system, and home where they are loved and can express their emotions.

Moving With Your Child After Divorce

Relocation under Pennsylvania law is open to interpretation, and it means you must modify or renegotiate child custody, time-sharing plans, and how and when you and your partner will each be with your children. Pennsylvania law defines relocation as “a change in the residence of the child, which significantly impairs the ability of a non-relocating party to exercise custodial rights.” Our family divorce lawyer can help you to mediate a cost-effective way to change your child custody agreement.

Notification of Interested Parties

Changing your child’s home address requires the signed approval of all who have access to the child under your existing court order or a judge’s approval. The relocating parent must formally notify all parties at least 60 days prior to the move. Co-parents must agree and negotiate a parenting plan that’s in the best interest of both you and your children.

Modification of Your Child Custody Order

The non-relocating parent is obligated to agree with the petitioner and negotiate new co-parenting or visitation arrangements or object to the proposed move by stating objections. If the co-parent or a biological parent objects to the change, the judge schedules a hearing. You should never simply move with your child because you can be held in contempt of court and ordered to return the child to your co-parent.

Relocation Hearing

The judge considers alcohol or substance abuse, DUI convictions, spousal or child abuse, and the contribution of each parent to the financial support of the child. Generally, it’s important to maintain a relationship with your child to be considered for visitation or joint custody, but an absent parent may be granted visitation or custody if the petitioning parent is not a good choice.

The judge will approve changes that benefit your child financially, emotionally, or educationally. For example, your child may benefit when you take on a higher-paying job. The judge may decide moving closer to family and friends increases your children’s support network and approve your move.

Mediation of Child Custody Issues

Our family divorce lawyer with more than 30 years’ worth of experience can help you to mediate a cost-effective solution to the modification of your child custody order. Agreeing on child custody issues and creating an amicable relationship between co-parents is best for your children. If you intend to appear in court with a lawyer, you’ll have to pay legal fees. A judge will consider the physical availability of the child to the non-relocating parent, including time-sharing, the distance between the homes, how the child will travel from one house to the other, and who will pay for the trip.

Competing Presumptions

Relocation with a child after divorce opens up the issue of child custody for all parties who are interested in each child. Competing presumptions allow a biological parent to seize the opportunity to gain joint custody or visitation that they, otherwise, did not enjoy. A DNA test determines who is a child’s biological father, but the judge has the right to decide that another man is your child’s legal father. A biological father can file for custody of his child if his wife is the co-parent attempting to relocate. If your child is a teenager, the judge will ask your child where he or she wants to live.

Law Office of Joanne Kleiner

Call our family divorce lawyer at (215) 886-1266 today to schedule a confidential consultation in our conveniently located Jenkintown office. You can meet with us before you change your residence or respond to a petition from a co-parent who hopes to relocate with your child. Our family lawyer may be able to help you if you are a child’s biological parent who hopes to gain joint custody or visitation rights with your children.