Joanne Kleiner

Jul 01

Will the COVID-19 Pandemic Change Property Division?

Understanding How COVID-19 Affects Property Division

One of the most common reasons that a divorce turns acrimonious is due to disagreements over property division. Unfortunately, things may get even more challenging in the future as the U.S. unemployment rate surpassed 13% in May. Many divorce attorneys are already starting to notice that routine property divisions are being complicated by the COVID-19 crisis.

Defining Non-Marital Property Is Trickier Without Definitive Separation

During the COVID-19 outbreak, many spouses realized that their relationships were no longer working. However, some of these couples are choosing to continue living together because of the challenges of raising children and finding new homes during the pandemic. This can lead to some issues because of the way Pennsylvania defines non-marital property. Non-marital property is anything you acquire before your wedding or after your separation, and it is not divided during a divorce.

Since Pennsylvania does not have any legal separation process, the date of separation is often just defined as the day one spouse moves out. However, when a couple is still living together and even sleeping in the same bedroom together, it can be hard to prove that separation has actually happened. This can lead to one spouse saying something is marital property while the other insists they acquired it after separation. A divorce lawyer could help you make sure that your actual date of separation is legally provable, even if you keep living with your spouse for the time being.

Assigning Value to Property May Be More Complex

Another potential roadblock to property division is all the economic uncertainty right now. Generally, Pennsylvania property division is about making sure each person has an equitable share of marital assets. If the couple does not agree on the value of an asset, though, it is hard to say whether or not each person has an equal amount. Due to COVID-19’s effect on the global economy, there are all sorts of assets that may have fluctuating value. These include the following:

Real estate property
Family-owned businesses
Stocks
Antiques and heirlooms
Other investments

Some people may end up disagreeing because they think a property is likely to dip or rise in value once the virus is over. There is also the risk of a property suddenly rising or dropping in value before property division agreements can be finalized.

There May Be Disagreements About How to Handle Failing Properties

Another potential coronavirus property division problem that divorce lawyers are encountering right now involves disagreements about property liquidation. Usually, during a divorce, couples try to keep assets intact until they can be divided. However, with the virus harming many businesses and investment markets, this may not be an option. Many people are trying to sell businesses before they get further in debt or sell a stock before its price drops lower. When you and your spouse cannot agree on how to handle a failing property, things can get very bitter.

Handling sudden changes to major assets during a divorce is always a challenge. You need to monitor assets carefully to make sure your spouse does not do anything without your permission. If it is too hard to communicate with an ex-spouse yourself, you will need a lawyer who can help you reach an agreement. Remember, you need to document all agreements carefully, so it does not become a problem later on in the property division process.

The COVID-19 outbreak is likely to result in more complex property division cases. If you want to make sure you get your fair share, you need a knowledgeable divorce lawyer on your side. Joanne Kleiner has spent years helping Jenkintown residents through their divorces. Our office is happy to provide mediation to assist in a friendly divorce, and we are also willing to fight for you in court. During these challenging times, we are working remotely to meet our clients’ needs. You can call us at (215) 886-1266 or fill out our online contact form to get a virtual consultation for your divorce.

Jun 27

Are More People Getting Divorced Due to COVID-19 Lockdowns?

How Lockdowns Are Affecting Divorce Rates

With roughly 2.6 billion people under some form of lockdown by the end of March 2020, the COVID-19 pandemic has greatly altered daily routines. Various stay-at-home orders mean that many couples are now spending all their time together. Here is what you need to know about how these lockdown measures are influencing divorce cases.

Interest in Divorce Rises Following Lockdowns

On average, about 40% of first-time marriages end in divorce. However, COVID-19 divorce statistics show that these rates may be on the rise. In countries where lockdowns have already ended, like China, there have been record-high numbers of divorce filings. Even in regions where couples are still stuck at home together all the time, there are already signs that divorces are more likely to happen. Many divorce lawyers already report that they have had an unusually high number of people inquiring about divorce. The exact rate of divorces due to lockdown still is not known. However, many analysts agree that by 2021, there will be a huge increase in divorce rates.

The Reason Lockdown Is Causing Divorces

At first glance, it does seem like people under lockdown are more likely to get divorced. However, this does not mean that the lockdown itself is directly causing divorce. Instead, it means that already unhealthy marriages are more likely to end now. For most people, realizing a relationship has run its course is a long, drawn-out process. However, the stress of lockdown is speeding up this process.

For some, the financial and health worries of the global pandemic are exacerbating underlying problems. For example, a partner who tends to have some anger management problems might get worse now. Some spouses are constantly arguing and berating to relieve their own stress. In other cases, the lockdown might just give couples more time to realize they are no longer compatible. It is easy to ignore personality differences when you and your partner are busy and separated all day. However, when you have days spent together doing nothing, it can be easier to realize that romance has left the relationship.

Another sad reality is that the lockdown is forcing many people to be with their abusers nonstop. Globally, there are estimates that domestic violence cases have almost doubled during the lockdown. This lockdown domestic violence rise may be a wake-up call for some, making them realize their abuser is never going to change or get better.

The Rate of Finalized Divorces Is Lowered

Though more people than ever are realizing they need a divorce, this does not mean there has been an immediate and drastic spike in lockdown divorce cases. Instead, many people say they are putting off divorce until after the stay-at-home orders end. For those in a safe home environment who have children to consider, this may be a smart choice for the family. It could make it easier to avoid challenges like child care or finding a new home during the pandemic. However, in cases where there is a lot of violence or acrimony, it may be a good idea to go ahead and start the process of divorce. Divorce is always a slow process, and right now, family courts are not operating at full capacity. Even once courts start running again, it will take a while for them to get through their backlog of cases. This means that most couples who have realized they want to start the divorce process now will probably need to wait at least three to four months to get into court.

In many cases, waiting until after lockdown to get a divorce is not always possible. Therefore, you may want to go ahead and speak to a Pennsylvania divorce lawyer. Our attorney at the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner is currently working from home and providing remote consultations. We are familiar with handling the complexities of child custody, spousal support, asset division, and more. If you are a resident of Jenkintown who would like to learn more about starting the divorce process, go ahead and give us a call at (215) 886-1266.

Jun 02

What Co-Parents Shouldn’t Do During COVID-19

4 Things Separated Parents Should Avoid During COVID-19

Due to the COVID-19 crisis, courthouses across all of Pennsylvania’s 67 counties are closed. However, this does not suspend a parent’s obligations under their custody agreements as courts may still get involved in the future. Here is some advice on four things to avoid during the pandemic so that you can stay out of trouble.

1. Do Not Keep the Child From the Other Parent

While you may not feel safe having your child switch between homes during a pandemic, this is what the court order says. That agreement is still valid during COVID-19. In fact, stay-at-home orders specifically state that transportation for custody arrangements takes precedence over the lockdown.

One parent cannot decide to keep the child if the other parent has a right to custodial time. This can lead to a contempt of court charge. It may even be enough for the court to grant a remote hearing and get involved. In other words, this is a serious matter that could result in punishment.

2. Do Not Make Unilateral Decisions

Co-parenting and shared custody agreements are still in effect, even if courts are closed and normal life is upended. No matter the national level of crisis, parents are still expected to work with each other to the extent mandated by the custody agreement.

Unless the agreement says otherwise, a parent cannot act to make a decision about the schedule or medical care for the child without input from the other parent. The COVID-19 crisis cannot be used as an excuse to upend the custody agreement. Make sure to follow the same procedures that you always would when making decisions on behalf of the children. While you may not be found in contempt of court today, there is the chance that this could happen when the other parent is finally able to get a hearing. If there are concerns, they should be discussed, but one parent does not get the sole right to make decisions.

3. Do Not Be Hostile

Everyone is under stress right now. However, the texts and emails that you send can always be admitted into a later court hearing as evidence used against you. A pattern of hostile communication can always be grounds for the court to amend the custody arrangement at a later date. That’s why a child custody attorney would advise a client to be civil no matter what.

Courts want to see a cooperative co-parenting relationship between the spouses. They do not want to see hostility in communications. Even if the courthouse is not open now, a judge will be able to see how the two parents dealt with each other during a time of crisis. Thus, this is the time to take the high road, even if the other parent has been uncivil to you first.

4. Do Not Take the Court’s Time Unless It’s Critical

Family law courts are going to be backed up for the foreseeable future. Courts are not holding in-person hearings right now due to COVID-19, and there is not a concrete answer as to when they will fully reopen. There are emergency matters that are being heard remotely.

However, you need to be careful with what you consider an emergency. Know that judges are backed up right now and only want to focus on matters that are absolutely vital. They may not want to take the time to deal with something that they do not consider to be a priority. Simple issues such as pickup times and who should provide transportation to after-school activities will not be considered matters of vital importance. Thus, you should use discretion in deciding what to file with the court right now.

If you need advice on the impacts of COVID-19 on your particular custodial situation, turn to a child custody attorney at the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner. We’re prepared to help you throughout the COVID-19 crisis and beyond after the lockdown is lifted. Call us today at (215) 886-1266 for your initial consultation at our office in Jenkintown.

May 29

When a Child Refuses to See a Parent

What If the Child Doesn’t Want to See a Parent?

When parents are separated in Pennsylvania, the father will usually get about 28% of the time with the kids. However, some older children may be unhappy with this balance, and they may even want to completely cut out one of the parents from their lives. This feeling could be even more accentuated during the COVID-19 crisis when kids do not want to leave home.

A Parent Cannot Contribute to the Situation

The question is how far a parent must go in order to encourage their child to see the other parent. What’s absolutely certain is that the parent cannot encourage their child to not visit with the other parent. For example, they cannot suggest that the child stay home and not see their parent due to any COVID-19-related concerns. If that happens, it could be grounds for an alienation charge. This could even lead to a change in custody and other court sanctions against the alienating parent, such as contempt of court.

However, the parent rides a very fine line between hearing a child out and encouraging the situation. This places them in legal peril. One of the first things that a parent should do if their child voices a preference to not see the other parent is to contact a child custody lawyer for guidance. The current pandemic situation requires an even more delicate approach.

Have a Neutral Conversation

At the same time, the parent should know the reason why the child does not want to see the other parent. If it’s something that threatens the safety or well-being of the child, the parent should know what’s happening.

However, there is a narrow distinction between listening to the child’s concerns and being perceived as contributing to the situation. The parent should definitely have a conversation with the child to understand the roots of their concerns.

If the concerns do not involve the child’s well-being, the parent probably should encourage them to observe the visitation schedule and see the other parent. At the very least, it’s important to be seen as promoting a relationship with the other parent given the consequences for alienation.

What Happens If the Child Refuses to Visit?

This is where a parent ends up in a very delicate situation. Failing to make the child available for the visit at the appointed time in the custody schedule can mean contempt of court charges. On the other hand, a parent would hate to force the child into something.

In general, the parent should err on the side of making the child available for the visit. This is especially true during the COVID-19 lockdown when the court does not want to see parents acting unilaterally on their own. However, if the child absolutely refuses to see the other parent, there will need to be some documentation to keep the parent out of trouble with the court. If your child just simply will not go, you’ll need to send a timely message to the other parent. Try to take some video or recordings of the child’s refusal so that there is some documentation. You should also notify your attorney as soon as possible for guidance on how to handle the situation.

Will the Court Order the Child to Visit?

A family court judge will certainly want to know the reason why the child does not want to visit with the other parent. The judge may even bring the child into his or her chambers for a conversation without either of the parents present to get to the bottom of the situation.

The court is more likely to order a change in the visitation agreement in accordance with the child’s wishes if the child is a teenager. At that age, a minor has some more say over the situation. If the child is younger, the court may not decree a change in the arrangements absent some compelling reason to do so.

Your legal path may be fraught with danger if you are in this position, so you need to act very carefully. This may even be more accentuated right now by the fact that COVID-19 has largely closed family courts.

If you are having issues with your custody agreement, contact a child custody lawyer at the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner in Jenkintown, PA. Call us at (215) 886-1266 to schedule your consultation.

May 05

Tips for Successfully Sharing a Home With a Former Spouse

Moving on From a Relationship Without Moving Out

The overall divorce rate in the United States is anywhere from 30 to 50% depending on where you get your information from. Younger Americans are less likely to get divorced while older Americans have seen their divorce rates increase dramatically since 1990. However, you may find that you’re stuck sharing a home or an apartment with your former spouse for months after the divorce is finalized.

Make Sure to Create Your Own Space

One of the most important parts of sharing a home with a former spouse is ensuring that you have a space to call your own. For instance, you could choose to claim the guest bedroom that has the bathroom attached to it as your own little apartment. You might also consider staking claim to the finished basement that has its own entrance and exit. Even setting up separate sleeping arrangements on the living room couch can be enough to create physical space. Taking such a step can minimize the amount of contact that you have with your former husband or wife and allow you to process your emotions in private.

Don’t Expect to Rekindle the Romance

If you are still friendly with your former spouse, it may be possible to share meals, have movie nights or otherwise spend time together at home. However, it is important that you create limits as to how friendly you get with this person. If one person mistakes a kind gesture such as making dinner or sharing a blanket for an attempt to reconcile, it could result in hurt feelings.

Hurt feelings could lead to arguments that may make it difficult to peacefully share a home. Furthermore, attempting to reconcile when your former partner isn’t interested in doing so can prevent you from truly getting past a relationship and moving on with your life.

Keep Lines of Communication Open

Living with someone means that you are likely responsible for paying a portion of the rent or buying groceries. You might also be responsible for making repairs or ensuring that the home remains clean. It is important that you understand what your responsibilities are around the home and what your current housemate will be responsible for.

In some cases, it may be a good idea to create a formal lease or similar type of written agreement. Effective communication can help ensure that rent or mortgage payments are made on time or that the home is in good enough condition to be sold when the time comes to put it on the market.

Don’t Abdicate Your Responsibilities as a Parent

If your children are living with you and your former spouse, it is important that you provide a nurturing and positive environment for them. This means helping them with school assignments or comforting them when they are upset or nervous about the future. It is often a good idea for you and the child’s other parent to work together whenever possible to provide stability for your son or daughter.

Know That Help Is Available

The COVID-19 pandemic has made it difficult for people to do little more than go to the grocery store or take a walk around the neighborhood. Although you may not be able to venture far from home, it doesn’t mean that you can’t get in touch with a mental health counselor when you’re feeling isolated.

If you are being threatened by your former spouse, you can attempt to call the police or a local domestic violence hotline to get help. Those who are unsure of how to solve a problem with this individual can also call friends or family members for moral support or guidance. Finally, a divorce lawyer may be able to provide insight into what resources are available when you run into a problem of any kind.

When you need a divorce lawyer, feel free to contact the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner in Jenkintown by calling (215) 886-1266. You can also contact the firm by sending a fax to (215) 886-2670.