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Joanne Kleiner

Oct 15

How to Get a Divorce Quickly

Ways to Quickly Finalize a Divorce

Getting a divorce can be an emotionally trying time for both parties involved as the marriage comes to an end. The risk of divorce is between 42-45%, which means almost half of all married couples have to endure the process. If you want to move on with your life and get a divorce quickly, there are a few critical steps to take.

Put Everything in Writing

All agreements need to be put into writing to ensure that no one changes his or her mind or goes back on his or her word whether it involves dividing assets or child custody. Creating a written agreement can prevent delays and complications even if you’re getting along with one another. It’s also necessary to collect specific documents to finalize the divorce. You’ll need to obtain your children’s birth certificates, your marriage certificate, the prenup agreement if there is one, your mortgage papers, portfolios and joint bank accounts. By staying organized, you can save extra time and avoid additional conflict.

Consider a Collaborative Law Divorce

Collaborative law divorce is one of the types of divorces available and can allow you to reach agreements outside of court. Not only could it make the process smoother and quicker, but it could also save you money. Similar to mediation, it involves a third party and includes negotiations to finalize the divorce. You won’t have to worry about the decisions that are made being imposed by the court. It can take place in an informal setting and include an honest exchange of information. Each person will need to hire his or her own attorney. Communicate to the legal representative what you want, but keep in mind that you’ll still need to compromise and remain flexible during the negotiation process. A licensed mediator may also need to be used if it becomes difficult to reach agreements. The process of a collaborative law divorce also includes meeting with other professionals, like child therapists and financial advisors, to receive additional information for your situation.

Remain Honest

Many people are prone to bending the truth while getting a divorce as a way to protect themselves. Unfortunately, a lack of transparency can be detrimental to your case if you fail to remain honest with your ex and his or her lawyer. You’ll need to completely disclose all your financial information and avoid moving money around or hiding it. If you’re caught lying, you can lose custody of your children and even some of the assets that are in the process of being divided.

Keep the Children in Mind

It can be easy to neglect kids while getting a divorce because many people focus on their own pain and trauma, which can lead to issues that lengthen the process of getting a divorce. Children can also experience the same effects, which makes it necessary to keep them in mind with each decision that is made when you’re separating from your spouse. Their well-being should be the top priority when working out the details of the child custody arrangement or dividing assets. It’s also important to avoid complaining about your spouse, which can negatively affect your kids and how they view the other parent. Consider investing in a therapist for both you and your children to ensure you can heal and move on quickly.

Make Communication a Priority

Although your marriage may have deteriorated, it doesn’t mean that you can’t engage in proper communication with your former spouse. Working together to complete the divorce can help avoid tension and conflict. Your spouse will be more willing to negotiate if he or she already has been communicating with you. Reaching an agreement on some of the main aspects of the divorce can allow it to be finalized more quickly.

Contact the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner in Jenkintown at (215) 886-1266 to find out more about how you can get divorced quickly. With the help of a family attorney, you can learn more about your rights and have the assistance of a legal professional who can help you navigate the process.

Sep 13

What to Do When Mediation Doesn’t Work

What Happens When Mediation Fails?

Research indicates that people are more likely to have a satisfactory outcome with their divorce when they use mediation instead of the courts, but this does not mean that mediation is the best choice for every couple. Knowing what to expect if your mediation fails can help you feel a lot more comfortable with the entire process.

How to Decide If Mediation Has Failed

When mediation does not go as smoothly as possible, your first instinct might be to decide it has failed and move on. However, it is important to take a breath and remember that it is still possible to use mediation even if you have had a disagreement or two. You may want to think twice about stopping mediation unless you notice one of these problems:

  • One person is constantly belittling or harassing the other.
  • Your mediation sessions go nowhere because you are sidetracked by arguments.
  • One party refuses to budge or compromise on any issues.
  • During sessions, one person never speaks or mentions their desires.
  • Belligerent tactics, like denying access to children or threatening to cut off funds, are being used.
  • One person repeatedly lies or fails to disclose important information.
  • Proceedings are being dragged out because one party does not want to divorce.

Considering Another Round of Mediation

Noticing problems in your current mediation session does not necessarily mean that you need to give up on mediation altogether. Sometimes, it is still possible to fix your mediation. You may want to consider starting fresh with another divorce mediation lawyer. Sometimes, no matter how talented an attorney is, his or her personality just might not be right for your situation. It can also be helpful to take a short break and get a more objective outlook on mediation. This can be a good solution when you and your ex really want the benefits of mediation but are just struggling to compromise and work with each other occasionally.

Trying the Collaborative Divorce Method

Mediation not working out does not necessarily mean you need to go straight to divorce court. Another useful option can be a collaborative divorce. Collaborative law shares some similarities with mediation since both procedures involve the two parties working together to find a mutually beneficial arrangement. However, instead of working with just one mediator, each party comes to the table with their own lawyer. This can be useful because you have someone to represent your interests and take your side in discussions. The collaborative divorce method also gets more input from other unbiased parties. You meet with professionals like child therapists and financial experts to discuss your situation and get more advice.

Moving on to a Divorce Trial

When there are things you simply cannot agree on, it might be time to take things to the courts. A judge can help find the best solution for any children and assist in dividing up assets in a fair and equitable way. Even when you do not agree on every part of the divorce, you can still file a no-fault divorce in Pennsylvania. This lets you have a shorter divorce time while still getting the court’s input on deciding important aspects of your divorce. Keep in mind that all your time in mediation was not wasted just because you are involving the court. It was still a valuable way of gathering information and learning more about you and your ex’s priorities and goals.

Find the Right Option for You With Joanne Kleiner

Whether or not mediation turns out to suit your situation, the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner is here to help. With over 25 years of experience, we have the knowledge and the dedication to try and get you the best possible outcome for your divorce. In addition to being a talented divorce mediation lawyer, Joanne Kleiner also assists with a variety of other family law cases. Call our office in Jenkintown at (215) 886-1266 or fill out our contact form to schedule a confidential consultation today.

Sep 10

Reasons Older Couples Get Divorced

Why Older Couples Are More Likely to Divorce

According to research from Bowling Green University, the divorce rate for those aged 50 and older has doubled since 1990. At the same time, younger couples are choosing to remain committed to their partners at higher rates. There are many reasons why older individuals may choose to end their marriages, and several of these reasons have nothing to do with hate or spite for their partners.

Parents Stayed Together to Raise the Kids

You may have chosen to stay together with your spouse to provide a stable life for your children. When the kids were fully grown and moved out of the house, there was simply no reason to stay together. It is not uncommon for couples to only realize how far they have drifted apart until after their kids have left. In these instances, there is nothing to distract them from the pitfalls of their marriages.

Women Have Experienced Greater Economic Freedom

Several decades ago, women were seen as homemakers while their husbands provided financial security for the family. Today, it is harder for employers to discriminate against workers based on gender. Therefore, you are more likely to create a greater level of financial security for yourself regardless of your gender. Ultimately, this economic security means that women don’t need to stay in an unhappy marriage for fiscal reasons. Men who initially stayed at home or otherwise made less than their wives may also choose to end a marriage if their circumstances change later in life.

Couples May Simply Want to Pursue Other Interests

There is a chance that you’ll live longer than your parents or grandparents did. This means that you’ll have more time to pursue your love of cooking, traveling or being a business owner. At some point, your spouse may decide that he or she wants to spend more time around the house, playing golf or relaxing on the beach. Eventually, you may decide that you and your partner need to be apart to make the most of your life. The good news is that uncontested divorces are fairly easy to navigate with the help of an attorney.

Health Concerns Could Lead to a Divorce

While it may be hard to imagine leaving a spouse over a health issue, being a caretaker is stressful. In some cases, the level of care that your significant other needs is more than you are qualified or capable of providing. There is also a financial component to caring for a loved one that can add even more stress to a relationship.

Even if you are committed to caring for your spouse no matter what, he or she could experience significant cognitive decline. It is possible that your spouse won’t even remember you, which may make it difficult to remain in a relationship despite your best intentions.

It Could Be Impossible to Overlook a Significant Character Flaw

People tend to start looking toward retirement as they enter their 50s and 60s. As there is less time to save for a comfortable financial future, it can be important to create and stick to a financial plan. However, your spouse may still struggle with a shopping addiction or other vices that are expensive.

These expensive habits could put your mental, physical and financial health at risk at the same time. Therefore, you may decide that it is time to safeguard your future and hope that your spouse will eventually get the help that he or she may need. It is worth noting that money or other marital assets may be divided in some fashion even if they are held in separate accounts.

If you are looking to end your marriage in a timely and relatively amicable manner, the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner may be able to help. Call our office in Jenkintown at (215) 886-1266 to learn more about uncontested divorces or get other insights. You can also send a fax to (215) 886-2670 for more information.

Aug 24

How Debt Allocation Agreements Protect Spouses

Do You Need a Debt Allocation Agreement?

The average Pennsylvanian has about $40,000 in debt, which is lower than the national average but still significant. During divorce proceedings, spouses often find out about thousands of dollars in debt to which they did not agree but may still be on the hook for repaying. Many family lawyers recommend a debt allocation agreement within a prenuptial agreement in order to avoid this scenario.

Pennsylvania Is an Equitable Distribution State

Equitable distribution is a legal concept that governs how marital assets and debts will be divvied. Pennsylvania does recognize a distinction between separate and marital property. If an asset is deemed separate property, the other spouse has no inherent right to it. Examples may include property:

  • Acquired prior to being married
  • Obtained after the couple is separated
  • Explicitly excluded by a contract
  • Received as part of an inheritance

Marital property includes all assets and debts acquired during the marriage. These can include credit card balances, loans, mortgages and so forth. Equitable distribution means that the courts will distribute those items in an equitable manner — in other words, what a judge deems fair and reasonable.

What If Your Distribution Is Not So Equal?

Equitable distribution means fair but not necessarily equal. Unfortunately, a judge’s idea of what is fair may not be the same as yours. This is why prenups are so important in Pennsylvania regardless of what your financial status is at the time you enter the marriage. If your spouse spends thousands on Philadelphia Eagles or Pittsburgh Steelers season tickets without your consent, a judge is not necessarily going to view that outstanding expense in the same negative way you might.

Prenuptial Agreements

A prenup or premarital contract is a contract agreed upon by two partners before entering marriage. It can protect those individuals during the union and if it ends in divorce. These agreements are governed by general federal, state and local contract rules and must be in writing and signed by both partners. Prenups will usually cover any items found within a divorce order, such as:

  • Right to property
  • Distribution of assets and debts
  • Spousal support
  • Family business management
  • Insurance policy benefits

Debt Allocation Agreements

When many people consider prenups, they think of them in terms of assets. There is a stereotype about wealthy individuals using prenups to protect themselves from dishonorable partners entering marriages for all the wrong reasons. But prenups help you to protect your future no matter how wealthy you are. A debt allocation agreement is an aspect of a prenuptial agreement in which both parties are free of any debt that was not made jointly or lacks a signed document asserting the joint status. Many home-related loans require joint status, but if your spouse were to open up a credit line you did not know about and go on a huge spending spree, this agreement would protect you from those actions.

Is a Pennsylvania Court Required to Uphold a Prenup?

The Uniform Premarital Agreement Act was introduced to give individuals confidence that a prenup would be enforced while still allowing judges some leeway. Pennsylvania has not yet enacted or even introduced the act, so judges have much greater leeway. Still, courts will generally enforce prenups unless a spouse can prove the agreement was not entered into voluntarily, he or she had insufficient knowledge of the other spouse’s finances and behaviors during the marriage or the other spouse did not fully disclose assets and debts.

Protect Your Future

If you’re considering marriage or in the process of being married, we strongly recommend that you seek legal representation and take steps to protect your future. Many people have an impression that prenups are just for the rich, but this is not the case at all. At Joanne Kleiner & Associates, we focus on Pennsylvania family and divorce law and welcome the opportunity to consult with you on such matters. Set up your consultation with a family lawyer today by contacting us online or calling our Jenkintown office at 215-886-1266.