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Nov 21

How Mediation Can Be Used With Child Custody Situations

The Process of Mediation With Child Custody Cases

One of the largest issues to be tackled in a divorce is child custody, which is something that can be difficult for each spouse to agree upon. In 2017, there were more than 825,000 divorces in the U.S., many of which involved such issues as child custody and child support. If you have children and you would like some help ironing out the details with your child custody arrangement, call one of our child custody attorneys today.

What Is the Mediation Process?

Mediation is a process that’s commonly used in uncontested divorces, which means that both spouses believe that they can reach a settlement without disagreement. This is a type of procedure wherein both spouses will discuss all of their current disputes and disagreements with a third-party mediator in an attempt to come to an agreement about these issues. The third party who acts as a mediator is meant to be wholly unaffiliated with either spouse.

While there is a wide range of cases that can go through mediation, child custody is a primary focus of many mediation procedures that occur with a divorce. The role of the mediator in this process is to handle discussions about the child custody while also coming up with solutions that can help resolve the primary dispute. Even though the mediator does not have the power to directly settle the disagreement themselves, they can help push the spouses toward having civil discussions.

How Does Mediation Work With Child Custody?

Mediation with child custody agreements works in much the same way as other forms of mediation. The parents of the child will have discussions with a third-party mediator as opposed to taking the case to court. Mediation can either be done with both parents in the same room or in separate rooms depending on preference. One of the most common ways in which mediation is used with child custody cases is when the parents or guardians are able to agree on most aspects of the child custody agreement but disagree on a couple of the particulars. The mediator will attempt to reach a middle ground with both parents on the smaller aspects of child custody. A successful mediation procedure is determined by whether or not the parents agree on every aspect of child custody. If they do not, the custody case will likely go to litigation.

Primary Benefits of Using Mediation

When you are considering using the mediation process for the child custody agreement between you and your spouse, there are a variety of benefits that can be derived from this process. For one, the mediator won’t be on any side, which means that the parents or guardians of the child are able to speak freely during the mediation. Mediation may also be able to help the parents of the child communicate more openly, which can be beneficial for the child’s future.

This process also does not involve expert witnesses in the same way as court cases do, which is one of the reasons as to why the process is usually a short one. Even though the decisions and agreements that are made in mediation aren’t typically legally binding, they are usually adhered to by a court. The various factors that will need to be agreed upon in a child custody plan include:

  • The type of custody
  • Living arrangements with the parents and the child
  • A visitation schedule
  • How the holidays will be spent
  • Where the child will obtain education
  • When and what types of vacations can be taken with each parent

After a plan has been created and signed by each parent, it usually goes through a short finalization process.

If you are filing for a divorce and you would like to know more about your legal options regarding child custody in Pennsylvania, call one of our child custody attorneys at our law office in Jenkintown today at (215) 886-1266 to set up a consultation.

Oct 29

How a Child Custody Attorney Can Assist With Your Case

A Child Custody Lawyer May Help You Resolve Disputes

Contested child custody cases can be extremely stressful, especially if you and the other parent cannot agree on fundamental parts of a parenting plan such as visitation scheduling, education or religious training. An attorney may be able to assist you in achieving a solution.

What Is a Paternity Case, and How Does it Involve Child Custody?

A paternity case involves the adjudication of father’s rights. There are generally two parts to a paternity case. First, a judge must declare that the man in question is biologically and legally the father of the child who is the subject of the litigation. Next, a judge may make decisions regarding visitation and child custody, including granting the father primary custody if appropriate.

A paternity case can be filed by the biological mother or father or by the Office of Child Support Enforcement. In some cases, the mother of the child may request a DNA test, or she may sign paperwork acknowledging paternity. Just because a father’s name is on a birth certificate does not necessarily mean that he is entitled to visitation rights. A paternity case must be opened for him to be legally declared the father and granted all the rights to which he is entitled. He may also be ordered to pay child support.

Should I File for Child Custody First or Wait Until I Am Served with Paperwork?

If you are separated and your spouse has mentioned that he or she may file for divorce and ask to be awarded custody, you may wonder if you should file first. It is a good idea to speak to a child custody lawyer about your options. In some cases, it can be beneficial to go ahead and file for an adjudication of child custody because the plaintiff in a civil case usually gets to present his or her side before the defendant does.

What is Temporary Child Custody?

In some cases, a judge will sign a temporary order that will remain in effect until a final order is entered. In many cases, both sides will agree on the specified terms. A temporary hearing may be set very early in the case so that important issues can be decided before a final hearing. A final hearing usually lasts longer than a temporary hearing so any evidence that was not presented initially can be offered at this time.

Can Child Custody Be Modified After the Judge Signs a Final Order?

Child custody can be modified at any time if there has been a material change in circumstances. If the change affects the health or safety of the child, an emergency order may be requested. Circumstances might be considered materially changed if one parent moves or gets remarried. An emergency situation could exist if there is suspicion of child abuse or a parent is arrested for a serious offense.

If I Am Behind on Child Support, Can My Ex-Partner Deny Me Visitation?

Child support and visitation matters are separate. You cannot withhold child support if you are being denied visitation, and your ex-spouse cannot deny you visitation if you are behind on child support. One option for those that have been denied visitation, is to file a petition with the court for the other parent to be held in contempt. That parent may be punished for not obeying previous court orders. If the judge believes that visitation is being denied against the best interests of the child, it may even be a reason for modification of custody.

What Should I Do if I Have Questions About My Pennsylvania Child Custody Case?

If you have legal questions about your child custody case, call Joanne Kleiner & Associates. Joanne Kleiner is an experienced child custody lawyer who will work hard on your case at every stage of the proceeding. Contact our Jenkintown office at (215) 886-1266 today. You can also schedule a consultation online.

Aug 28

How to Share Responsibilities for a Young Child’s School Activities

Who Is Responsible for School-Related Child Issues After Divorce

In 2016, the marriage rate was 6.9 per 1,000 individuals, and the divorce rate was 3.2 per 1,000 people. Overall, about 40 percent of first marriages end in divorce, and the rate is higher for second and subsequent marriages. Many of those divorces include households with young children who attend school, leaving parents with some tough choices regarding who will be responsible for handling school-related activities.

Deciding on a School District

If you and your ex-spouse both reside in the same school district, you may still need to decide on whose address to use as the primary address for your child. If one parent lives in a much better school district, you may have to work out the residency in your custody arrangement. This could be the situation if you share custody and parenting responsibilities. If one parent has primary custody, then that parent’s address is typically the one used for school purposes. The address is important because school district borders may vary based on which side of the street you live on.

Attendance at School Functions

When working with your divorce mediation lawyer, many of the scheduling issues between you and your ex-spouse will be negotiated as a part of the child custody arrangement. However, some issues may need to be directly specified in the arrangements. Attendance at school functions is one of those topics. Schools encourage parents to attend special events such as open houses and plays. If you do not want to attend the events simultaneously, work out an arrangement based on whom the child is with on the day of the event. You could also work out something different, such as an arrangement where one parent goes to daytime functions and another goes to evening functions.

Parent and Teacher Conferences

Parent and teacher conferences are an important part of the educational process. They allow you to find out how your child is doing socially, academically and functionally in the school environment. If you have a shared custody arrangement, consider going to a conference together or arranging separate times to both meet with your child’s teacher. This is especially important if your child stays with you and your ex-spouse during the school year.

Child Discipline Problems at School

You will also need to decide on who will be the point of contact if your child has a discipline problem at school. In this situation, you might have meetings with the school’s counselor, principal and teacher. Both parents may be asked to attend. If you and your ex-spouse prefer, you can arrange so that just one of you will handle these situations if they arise.

Pickup and Drop-Off Responsibilities

Part of your child custody arrangement may include who is responsible for getting your child to and from school each day. If you share custody and switch off different days of the week, this information will need to be provided to the school. If your child will ride the bus and use different school bus routes and stops based on whose house they are going to that day, this information must also be communicated to the school.

Emergencies and Unusual Events

You also need to have a plan with your ex-spouse about how to handle emergencies and unusual events. For example, if your child gets sick during the school day, you will need to know in advance who will pick up the child at school. This might be based on work schedules or which parent is caring for the child that day. You should have a plan in place for situations such as weather hazards that result in school closures, delays or early dismissals. Have a plan for handling school lockdowns and emergency building closures that are due to utility disruptions or widespread illness.

Joanne Kleiner is a skilled divorce mediation lawyer who can help you work through all of these issues. To schedule a consultation, contact us at Joanne Kleiner & Associates by phone at (215) 886-1266. You can also visit our law office in Jenkintown in person to make an appointment.

Aug 14

What You Should Know About a Separation Agreement

What a Separation Agreement Entails

If you’ve been living apart from your spouse and you’re on your way toward obtaining a divorce, you may want to think about a separation agreement. Over 30,000 divorces occur every year in Pennsylvania, many of which may have likely progressed without much issue because of a separation agreement. While not every separated couple is able to make this type of agreement, it could benefit you and your situation in a variety of ways.

What Is a Separation Agreement?

Although a separation agreement can be created before or after you file for a divorce, it’s commonly written up before the divorce occurs. This agreement is a written contract between both spouses that determines how property is going to be divided, how custody or alimony is to be arranged, and what your rights are. This type of agreement is legally binding and can be used once you file for an actual divorce. This contract serves as an agreement to all of the issues that can typically cause a divorce case to be a lengthy one. It is usually made after the two spouses have been separated for a lengthy period of time.

Since each spouse must agree on every single detail of the separation agreement, both parties will need to sign the document before it is considered to be binding. While the issues mentioned previously are the primary ones that must be detailed in a separation agreement, spouses can place anything they want into the agreement. For instance, some people choose to address such issues as what religion any children will formally practice or how any family pets will be taken care of. People choose to place these issues into a separation agreement now so that one spouse can’t change his or her mind later on. If one party attempts to do the opposite of what was agreed upon, the separation agreement serves as a legal document that may be useful.

How a Separation Agreement Can Help With Uncontested Divorce

Uncontested divorces are ones where you and your spouse have agreed to all of the particulars of a divorce, including custody time and the division of property. A separation agreement effectively turns your divorce into an uncontested one. Spouses who make these agreements before going to court are usually able to avoid having to eventually go to court to contest the divorce. The separation agreement that you fill out along with the other divorce paperwork will need to be agreed to by a judge.

The only instances where a judge will not abide by the separation agreement are when he or she believes that one party signed the document when under duress or he or she feels as though the terms are entirely unfair to one of the spouses. The exact process that occurs with an uncontested divorce depends on the specific details of the case. The process is simplified when there are no children involved or the assets that must be divided are small.

How a Lawyer Can Assist You With a Separation Agreement

Even though a lawyer is not always necessary for a separation agreement, there are a variety of ways in which a lawyer like ours could help you with your case. Lawyers who have experience in divorce law understand all of the facets of a separation agreement, which means that you can be counseled on these matters if ever necessary. Our lawyer can provide you with all of the information you require about a separation agreement as well as an uncontested divorce.

While the willingness of two parties to sign a separation agreement is a positive step in regard to the divorce process, it’s also a complex one that may require close attention by a lawyer who understands Pennsylvania law. Given the legal rights involved in a separation agreement, you may want to seek out our attorney to help you throughout the process. Sending us information about your case will allow us to identify what options are available to you.

When you’re searching for information about uncontested divorces for your own situation and you require counsel, call Joanne Kleiner & Associates in Jenkintown at (215) 886-1266.

Mar 20

The Difference Between Physical and Legal Custody

In 2016, the divorce rate was 3.2 per 1,000 people. While this was down from 4.0 in 2000, divorce still affects millions of families. If you’re a parent who’s going through a separation, it will be important to know the difference between physical and legal custody.

What Is Legal Custody?

If a parent has legal custody of a child, he or she has the ability to make important life decisions on that child’s behalf. These decisions could relate to everything from health care to religious beliefs. Parents with legal custody may also have a say in how their child is educated or disciplined.

What Is Physical Custody?

When a parent has physical custody, it means that the child lives with him or her the majority of the time. It is important to note that the noncustodial parent may still have the right to see or otherwise interact with the child. The child might also spend time at the other parent’s home either during the day or overnight as part of a visitation schedule.

Can Parents Have One Type of Custody Without the Other?

Yes, it is possible that a parent will obtain legal custody rights to a child without having physical custody rights. In a custody case, courts strive to make rulings that are in the best interests of the child. Depending on where the parents live or their work schedules, it might not be feasible for both to have physical custody of the child. However, such rulings may not preclude a parent from being granted legal custody if he or she has the ability to remain actively involved in a child’s life.

Can Parents Share Custody of Their Children?

Depending on the details of a case, it is possible for parents to share both legal and physical custody of their kids. It is also possible that a parent could have sole legal custody while sharing physical custody of a child. In some cases, the parents themselves will decide that one parent is better suited to make decisions for the child even when both are fit to be around the son or daughter. The final agreement will likely come down to the unique circumstances of the family involved.

Who Decides How Custody Matters Are Resolved?

In some cases, the parents themselves will decide how to divide custody of their children. This is determined as part of an overall parenting plan that will both work for them and be in the best interest of the child. However, if they are not able to come to an agreement on their own, a judge will make a ruling. Typically, parents are asked to resolve their differences through mediation or arbitration before asking a judge to make a ruling. A collaborative approach is generally a better option for parents as it will ultimately provide them greater control over the final outcome.

Can Custody Agreements Change Over Time?

It is possible that a custody agreement will change over time. For example, this could happen if one parent has to move to another town or state for a job opportunity or relocate closer to family members. A custody arrangement could also change when the child gets older and is better able to express his or her own living preferences. If a parent is given limited custody rights because of a criminal history or other factors deemed problematic by a court, he or she could gain expanded rights by overcoming those concerns.

The Law Prefers Both Parents Being in a Child’s Life

Assuming that neither parent is a danger to the child, both parents are presumed to play a role in that child’s life. This is because most children grow up to be better adjusted and ready for adulthood when they have two parents in their lives. Such an arrangement is generally created even if the parents don’t get along or would rather have custody or other rights to themselves. A judge or other neutral party may work with the parents to help them overcome their own problems for the sake of being good role models for their children. For the most part, families benefit from a smoother legal process.

If you are looking for a child custody lawyer in Jenkintown, contact our office by calling (215)-886-1266 or by filling out the form on our website. We’re prepared to help you through the process of determining custody rights and visitation schedules.