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Sep 05

Making the Collaborative Divorce Process Work

MAKING THE COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE PROCESS WORKIf your marriage has failed, but you don’t want to spend months or years bickering over the same things that brought the relationship to an end, you may have considered the collaborative approach to divorce, where all parties and their attorneys work to resolve any issues or disagreements without the intervention of the court. It can be an effective and less stressful process than a traditional divorce, but both parties (and their lawyers) have to be on board, and need to concur on a number of basic principles:

  • There needs to be a free and open exchange of information at all times — It will be difficult to reach a mutually acceptable solution if you try to hide information from the other parties. The more transparency you have, the smoother the process will be.
  • You need to be committed to listening, as well as advocating — The collaborative process is a two way street. Try to listen to your ex and understand his or her concerns.
  • All interactions should be as courteous and respectful as possible — Very little will be accomplished if you try to bully or dominate your ex.
  • You’ll have a better chance of moving forward if you leave the past behind — The past can’t be changed, and no amount of bringing it up will help resolve y our differences. Focus on where you are headed, not where you’ve been.
  • Put your children’s interests ahead of yours — Your children will probably be affected more acutely by the divorce than you will be, and they don’t have all the tools to cope. When making any decision, always ask first how it will affect your children, both in the short term and for years to come.
  • Always bargain in good faith — Deception or posturing has no place in the collaborative process. You’ll reach a better solution, and sooner, if you honestly seek a solution that works for everyone.

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Jul 20

The Benefits of the Collaborative Approach to Divorce

The Benefits of the Collaborative Approach to DivorceA divorce proceeding is commonly perceived and contentious and messy, but it doesn’t necessarily have to be that way. After all, that will likely just end up costing you a lot of time and money. If you’re done, and you want to move on with your life, using the collaborative approach to divorce can speed up the process, cost you less money, and help keep your blood pressure down.

In the collaborative process, you’ll still be represented by legal counsel, but you and your attorney will agree with your ex and his/her counsel (usually in writing) that you’ll work together to resolve all your differences without the intervention of the court. Instead of spending your time and energy taking sides and trying to figure out how you can come away with as much as possible, you’ll be encouraged to work cooperatively with your ex to find mutually beneficial solutions. When dealing with complex or challenging issues, it’s not uncommon for parties in a collaborative proceeding to bring in experts, such as child psychologists, accountants or financial planners, to identify workable solutions.

As a part of the agreement, it’s typical that, should you be unsuccessful in your efforts and require an adversarial proceeding in court to settle any disputes, your collaborative process attorneys will withdraw from your case, so that you will need to hire new counsel for any hearings or proceedings involving the court.

If you are successful in the collaborative process, you’ll work with your ex and with attorneys to prepare and sign an agreement stating all the terms of your settlement. That agreement must typically be reviewed and approved by the court and entered into the record of your divorce.

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At the office of Joanne E. Kleiner & Associates, we have more than 25 years of family law experience. We’ll help you stay focused on what matters. To schedule an appointment with an experienced Pennsylvania divorce attorney, contact our office online or call us at 215-886-1266.

Feb 01

The Collaborative Divorce Process

Collaborative Divorce

If you know that your marriage is over, but you don’t want a long and nasty divorce proceeding, you may want to consider a relatively new legal process—the collaborative divorce process. Here’s how it works.

In the collaborative divorce process, both parties retain their own legal counsel. However, instead of using the traditional process, where counsel may use any means to further the interest of his or her own client, both the parties and their attorneys agree in advance that all matters will be resolved without the intervention of the court. Accordingly, the parties and their attorneys are encouraged to identify and implement cooperative solutions.

To accomplish this objective, it’s common for the parties to bring in outside experts for guidance. For example, to identify the most appropriate custody and visitation arrangements, the parties may turn to child psychologists or counselors, who may meet with children and parents, assess needs and skills, and make a recommendation. With respect to property distribution, the parties often hire financial planners or consultants to determine how the parties can fairly allocate debts and assets.

If the parties successfully resolve all matters without the intervention of the court, an order is typically drawn up and submitted to the court, to be signed by the judge. However, if the parties run into any insurmountable hurdles and must ask the court for guidance, each party must hire new legal counsel for any further representation.

The collaborative process offers a number of potential benefits. Because it avoids a lot of the typical pre-trial discovery, it can be less expensive and can be resolved more quickly than through the traditional divorce process. In addition, if the parties successfully complete the collaborative process, it can have significant benefits when dealing with any minor children.

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At the office of Joanne E. Kleiner & Associates, we have more than 25 years of family law experience. We’ll help you stay focused on what matters. To schedule an appointment with an experienced Pennsylvania divorce attorney, contact our office online or call us at 215-886-1266.

Nov 27

Is the Collaborative Divorce Process Right for You?

Collaborative Divorce

Your marriage has ended, but you’re just tired of the fight. You don’t want to simply capitulate to be done with the relationship, but you don’t want a long, protracted fight, either. Have you considered the collaborative approach to divorce?

The Collaborative Approach to Divorce

The collaborative approach to divorce is an alternative that can save you time, money and hard feelings moving forward. It looks a little bit like mediation, but has some distinct differences.

In a collaborative divorce proceeding, you and your ex-spouse agree up front to resolve all your differences without the intervention of the court. That means that you, your lawyers, your ex and his/her lawyers all agree to seek cooperative and mutually beneficial solutions to all issues related to the divorce, from custody and visitation to child or spousal support and the equitable distribution of the debts and assets of your marriage.

At the onset of a collaborative divorce proceeding, you’ll usually enter into a “collaborative law participation agreement,” a contract that requires that you:

  • Negotiate all issues in good faith, seeking solutions that are beneficial and acceptable to all parties
  • Focus your energies on where you will go, not where you’ve been
  • Put the best interests of any minor children as a top priority in custody and visitation matters

Because you’ve agreed to attempt to resolve matters without the intervention of the courts, such matters as the division of the marital estate and the best arrangements for custody and visitation are often determined by consulting experts. In the collaborative process, it’s not unusual for the parties to retain a financial planner to propose a fair allocation of property or a child psychologist to suggest the best approach for custody and visitation.

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May 31, 2012

The Collaborative Divorce Process in Pennsylvania

Collaborative divorce is an alternative to litigated divorces that resolves your issues through cooperation with your ex-spouse — and takes places entirely outside the courtroom. The collaborative divorce process forms a team of the spouses, their attorneys and other professionals to address the unique needs of your family. The cooperative dynamic of collaborative divorce gives you a better chance for a positive outcome than litigation, in which a judge ultimately decides the issues for you.

The collaborative divorce process offers many advantages over litigation because it:

• Creates an atmosphere for civil negotiation and cooperation
• Involves other professionals to address more than just legal concerns
• Develops a financial plan to address future concerns
• Addresses each spouse’s emotional concerns
• Develops co-parenting plans for divorces involving children

The collaborative divorce process is based upon the spirit of cooperation. In fact, the first action in a collaborative divorce is a commitment by both parties and their attorneys not to involve the court in the process. This commitment is fundamental to the process and key in creating the cooperative atmosphere necessary to make collaborative divorce successful. Collaborative divorce is different than mediated divorce, in which a neutral mediator helps to resolve your issues. In the collaborative divorce process, the parties, though working cooperatively to achieve a negotiated settlement, are not neutral. Each party’s collaborative divorce attorney provides their client with independent legal advice regarding any proposed agreements. Should you or your ex-spouse opt to go to court, however, the process ends and both attorneys must withdraw.

Talk to a Pennsylvania collaborative divorce attorney today

Collaborative divorce has increased in popularity because it is a non-litigated approach to divorce aimed toward resolution for both parties. To learn more about the collaborative divorce process contact us online or call (215) 886-1266 to schedule a consultation.