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Jun 14, 2012

Divorce Mediation in Pennsylvania

Divorce can easily become a lose-lose proposition, and often everyone involved ends up emotionally scarred — particularly in heavily litigated divorces. However, divorce mediation offers an alternative to bitter court battles and may make your divorce less stressful. Even in cases where the ex-spouses feel animosity toward one another, an experienced Pennsylvania divorce mediator can help resolve situations that at first seem impossible.

What is divorce mediation?

Mediation is a process in which a neutral third party helps you resolve disputes relative to your divorce. The goal of divorce mediation is to help the spouses reach agreements on all or some of their disputes. Divorce mediation is successful because it is based on the following principles:

• Communication
• Fairness
• Flexibility
• Negotiation
• Problem solving
• Privacy and confidentiality

The family court often encourages divorcing couples to try divorce mediation before bringing issues to court. Successful divorce mediation can resolve numerous issues including:

• Spousal/child support
• Child custody/visitation
• Property/debt division

Divorce litigation can drain your finances and your emotional fortitude — especially in divorces involving embittered child custody issues and/or large marital assets that can drag on in court for years. And even once the divorce is over, you can still suffer from the financial and emotional fallout.

In a divorce you have a choice — you can either battle over every issue in court, expending time, money and energy, or you can try mediation. A mediated divorce can offer many benefits, including:

• Reduced legal and court costs
• Quicker problem resolution
• Increased control of problem resolution
• Equal airing of grievances
• Cooperation between spouses
• Co-parenting solutions
• Family issues decided by you rather than the judge

A Pennsylvania mediator can help

A contentious divorce can have devastating effects on you and your family. To discuss how a divorce mediator can help you navigate your divorce, contact us online or call (215) 886-1266 to schedule a consultation.

Feb 14, 2012

Types of Child Custody in Pennsylvania

One of the most difficult issues of a divorce is child custody. Who gets custody of the minor children, visitation and determining parenting time can be difficult even under ideal conditions. However, custody issues can usually be revisited as circumstances change, and an experienced Pennsylvania family law attorney can help you obtain custody modifications when appropriate.

The types of child custody in Pennsylvania are as follows:

• Temporary custody (de facto). This is different from court-ordered custody and refers to who has custody of the child currently. If you want to maintain custody during litigation you must file a request for temporary custody with the court.

• Sole custody. Sole custody is when one parent is given both legal and physical custody of the child and the child has only one primary residence. Legal custody is the right to make decisions for your child concerning education, religious upbringing, discipline, medical care and other significant matters concerning your child’s welfare. Physical custody means your child lives primarily with you and you make the decisions about your child’s day-to-day needs.

• Split custody. Split custody refers to a case in which there are two children and each parent has full physical custody of one of the children.

• Joint custody. Under joint custody you could have joint legal custody, when both parents share the control and care of the child but that child has one primary residence; shared physical custody, when your child has two residences and spends at least 35 percent of his or her time with the other parent; or you can work out a customized joint custody agreement with your ex-spouse that is a combination of shared physical and joint legal custody.

Get your child custody questions answered

At the core of child custody issues are your child’s best interests. To talk to a caring and compassionate family law attorney, contact us online or call (215) 886-1266 to discuss your child custody matter.