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Nov 05

How a Legal Separation Might Save a Marriage From Ending in Divorce

Why You Should Try Legal Separation Before Divorce

No matter how or why it happens, divorce is always a painful process for everybody involved. Legal separation is often seen as one step closer down the road towards an inevitable divorce. However, there are many cases in which this not necessarily the outcome.

Legal Separations Help You Decide If Divorce Is What You Really Want

A temporary separation may be the perfect remedy for certain marriage problems. The time apart allows both parties to rekindle their feelings for one another and reconnect with why they fell in love in the first place.

Sometimes, being legally separated is a viable alternative to a full-blown divorce that gives couples a chance to test the waters. Divorces are complex, emotionally taxing, and usually quite costly. They almost always require the services of a divorce lawyer to ensure that all assets are split up fairly.

Opting for a legal separation before taking this big step may result in a change of heart that prevents a bitter and emotional legal battle, so it’s something worth trying for any couple that wants to give their relationship every opportunity to work out.

A Journey of Self-Discovery

It’s also a valuable time for self-discovery since married couples have often been together for so long that they’ve lost the sense of who they truly are inside. If a legal separation results in this kind of positive journey, it may lead the couple back together.

On the other hand, it’s not always the case that a personal journey ends with a person back in the arms of their spouse. Sometimes, the journey of personal fulfillment leads one or both parties to the discovery that they’re perfectly happy with the split.

In those cases, it’s easier to move ahead with the divorce proceedings without having to live in wonder of whether the marriage could’ve worked if you’d given it another chance. Legal separation is that chance to ask yourself if you’re sure that ending this relationship is what you really want.

Time to Heal

The old adage “Time heals all wounds” is obviously not always true. But it is the case in many legal separations that, with enough time, both parties can bounce back from whatever issues that caused the conflict in the first place.

It may take a significant amount of time for a full recovery from emotional pains caused by significant events in a relationship. No matter how long the legal separation lasts, it’s still a much easier process than going through a divorce and then later getting back together. For some couples, it’s a surprise to both parties when the relationship suddenly springs back to life after an extended time apart.

Distance Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

Legal separation doesn’t always mean being physically separated as well, but in some cases, having both may help. A bit of distance can do a lot to put things in perspective for a couple that has been together for a long time.

With physical separation in addition to the legal element, both parties are given enough space to feel like their own person again. And one of the most important things about having space between you and your partner is that you’re given the opportunity to miss them.

This sense of longing is often what helps couples remember how much they care for each other. Of course, it can also help a person realize that they truly are happier with the relationship ended, which is just as valuable a realization to have.

If you’re considering a legal separation, whether it’s an effort to save your marriage or one step closer to divorce, the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner is here for you. Through her broad range of legal experience, Joanne E. Kleiner provides reliable and knowledgeable service to her Pennsylvania clients.

Call 215-886-1266 today for help with the difficult decision of legal separation. If it is not right for you, you will still have an experienced divorce lawyer to walk you through every step of the way. We’ll explain the law in a comprehensible way and give you all the information and guidance you need to make the right decision for you and your family’s future.

Feb 21

Comparing and Contrasting the Various Types of Alimony in Divorce

A Brief Explanation of the Different Types of Alimony

Although everything is rarely split right down the middle in a divorce, the process almost always breaks apart most, if not all, aspects of spouses’ lives. According to a 2013 U.S. Census Bureau publication, 93.4% of the 1.8 million Americans who provide alimony to their former romantic partners or spouses are men. Of the $18.3 billion given to ex-partners or ex-spouses as court-ordered financial support, the mean and median annual amounts were $5,154 and $9,958, respectively.

All Alimony Eventually Boils Down to This

No matter what type of alimony you’re ordered to pay, it’s still alimony. Alimony, like all elements of divorce, is highly situationally dependent. In other words, alimony payments won’t just depend on your income.

The purpose of alimony is to support your ex-spouse’s lifestyle following a divorce. As you’ll learn throughout this article, different types of alimony serve different purposes. All of them, however, force someone to make regular payments to his or her ex-spouse.

A Precursor — Understanding Divorce and Legal Separation

Before diving into these three types of alimony, it’s important to understand the differences between divorce and legal separation.

As you may know, courts use marriages to officially recognize partners as full-fledged spouses. Marriages create legal obligations and rights for spouses, including the choice to file income taxes as married filing jointly. The IRS actually encourages married couples to file jointly by offering them several tax credits, including the Earned Income Tax Credit, the Child and Dependent Care Tax Credit, and the American Opportunity Tax Credit.

Similar to how courts legally recognize marriage, courts also formally recognize divorce as the immediate, permanent dissolution of marriage. Although alimony can be an upside or a downside, depending on which side you’re on, divorce comes with downsides, such as potentially having the responsibility to make financial support payments to your soon-to-be ex-spouse.

In terms of legal recognition, Pennsylvania courts don’t care whether you’re engaged to or dating someone. Conversely, splitting from your spouse without getting divorced does, in fact, hold legal weight in some states. This alternative to divorce is known as legal separation.

Pennsylvania, however, doesn’t have laws that recognize legal separation. The Quaker State allows spouses to create separation agreements that have many of the same functions as divorces without actually getting divorced.

Some of these functions include splitting property, creating co-parenting schedules, determining alimony payments, calculating child support obligations, and establishing who’s responsible for paying bills and outstanding debts.

Now that you understand the difference between legal separation and divorce, we can review the three different types of alimony recognized by the Keystone State: spousal support, alimony and alimony pendente lite.

Spousal Support

Unlike alimony or alimony pendente lite, spousal support is the only type of alimony that requires legal separation to be involved. Although courts want both spouses to support themselves, judges grant spousal support to dependent spouses to help them get on their feet.

Spousal support is available after you’ve formally filed a separation agreement and up until you or your spouse file for divorce. It doesn’t matter who files for divorce. As such, this form of financial support ends whether you or your spouse files for divorce.

Pennsylvania courts use a complex formula, which is found under 231 Pa. Code § 1910.16-4, to calculate the dollar amount of spousal support owed.

Alimony Pendente Lite

After spousal support eligibility ends, the dependent spouse can receive alimony pendente lite, which translates from Latin into English as “alimony pending litigation.”

This type of court-ordered financial support begins after a spouse has filed a divorce complaint and ends after the divorce is finalized.

Alimony pendente lite helps dependent spouses keep their proverbial heads above water throughout the divorce process. It also gives them the chance to properly defend themselves in court by hiring a divorce lawyer. Alimony pendente lite is calculated with the same formula that’s mentioned above. It’s just as long, and arguably too complex, for any non-attorney to understand.

Alimony

This is the alimony you probably had in mind before reading this article. In Pennsylvania, judges award alimony to dependent spouses to lighten the financial load of transitioning to pre-marriage life.

Although exceptions exist, alimony usually doesn’t break the better-off spouse’s bank. Judges strive to be reasonable when determining whether dependent spouses should receive ongoing financial support and, if so, what amount.

Lastly, there isn’t a time limit for alimony payments. Still, you shouldn’t expect to make monthly alimony payments indefinitely. Court-ordered spousal financial support usually won’t last more than a few years.

If you’re anticipating a divorce or legal separation, you can’t go wrong by contacting the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner of Jenkintown at (215) 886-1266. The firm’s sole practitioner, the well-tenured divorce lawyer, Joanne Kleiner, has more than 42 years of legal experience. You can also reach us by filling out our website’s contact form.