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Dec 14, 2019

The Difference Between Contested and Uncontested Divorce in PA

Uncontested and Contested Divorce in Pennsylvania

According to the Pennsylvania Department of Health statistics, nearly 34,000 Keystone State residents ended their marriages in 2018 either through divorce or annulment. Deciding to divorce is never easy, but the counsel and support of an experienced Pennsylvania divorce lawyer can make the marriage dissolution process much less stressful. Depending on the circumstances, spouses may have an uncontested or a contested divorce.

Choosing the Right Legal Divorce Process

Technically, a divorce is a kind of lawsuit in which one party is deemed the plaintiff and the other, the defendant. Though most Pennsylvania divorces are not tried in a court, divorce petitions are processed through the court system, and a judge will ultimately sign the divorce decree.

In Pennsylvania, two divorce options are available. In a contested divorce, the court is called upon to rule on the various issues involved in dissolving the marriage. These issues include:

  • Child custody disputes
  • Child and spousal support payments
  • The division of marital assets

In an uncontested divorce, both spouses can agree about the various issues that have arisen during the separation process. In Pennsylvania, an uncontested divorce is often referred to either as a “no-fault divorce” or as a “mutual consent divorce.”

The requirements for these two classifications of divorce are stipulated under Title 23, Section 3301 of the Pennsylvania Consolidated Statutes.

Uncontested Divorces in Pennsylvania

Most Keystone State couples that dissolve their marriages opt for uncontested divorces. For the most part, these types of divorces are far less stressful and less time-consuming. Typically, a mutual consent divorce will only take 15 or 16 months to complete. On the other hand, a contested divorce can take longer than two years.

To obtain an uncontested divorce in the Keystone State, you must meet Pennsylvania’s residency requirements. Either you or your spouse must have lived in Pennsylvania for six months or longer before you can file for divorce.

Additionally, you and your spouse must be separated for a year before you can file for the divorce. You’ll need to provide the court with the date you separated. Most often, this will be the date that one spouse moved out of the marital home. However, in situations where spouses are not living together but are continuing to have sexual relations, the court may not view the date that a spouse moved out as a legitimate separation date.

In some situations, couples that are sharing the same address can still be considered separated. This may be the case when that couple sleeps in separate bedrooms, does not engage in sexual relations and does not share meals together.

Once residency and separation prerequisites are fulfilled, three more requirements must be met to file for a mutual consent divorce decree. They are as follows:

  • The marriage must be irretrievably broken.
  • Both spouses must agree that they want to end the marriage.
  • Both spouses must be willing to sign an affidavit consenting to divorce.

Contested Divorces in Pennsylvania

What happens when one or both spouses refuse to sign an affidavit consenting to divorce? The court will become involved in these contested divorces, and new stipulations will apply. Keep in mind that even if the spouse who’s balking previously promised to sign the divorce papers, the court will never order him or her to do so.

In such cases, the necessary period of separation is 24 months. This may also become a point of contention since Pennsylvania will still require you to file a form that verifies the date of separation, and your spouse will have 40 days to respond. If he or she contests the date, your divorce may take longer than two years to process.

Even in cases when a divorce is uncontested, a Pennsylvania divorce lawyer can be a valuable resource in helping a partner meet the legal requirements necessary for the dissolution of a marriage. The Law Office of Joanne Kleiner in Jenkintown, Pennsylvania, can help keep you focused on the bigger picture and the issues that matter most during trying times. Call us today at (215) 886-1266 to arrange a confidential consultation.

Dec 11

Handling the Holidays While Getting Divorced

Managing Divorce and the Holidays at the Same Time

Roughly 41% of all first marriages will end in divorce, and that percentage is even higher if it is a second or third marriage. While divorce may be relatively common, it doesn’t mean that it is an easy process to go through. It can be even harder if you are trying to get divorced during the months of November or December.

The Holidays Are About Tradition

One of the hardest parts about ending a marriage just before Thanksgiving or Christmas is missing out on the experiences that you once happily shared with another person. You may regret not being able to cook a turkey for your spouse and kids on Thanksgiving or open Christmas presents at your in-law’s house.

One way to overcome the loss of old traditions is to start new ones. For example, you may want to celebrate Thanksgiving with your kids the day before or after the holiday is officially observed. Instead of opening presents with extended family members, make a nice breakfast for your kids on Christmas morning.

You May Spend Time Apart From Your Kids

It can be extremely difficult for a parent to spend time away from his or her children during the holiday season. However, it is important to remember that your kids will want to spend time with as many different people as possible. Therefore, it is likely that you will be able to spend a few hours with them.

It is critical that you encourage your child to interact with your former spouse as much as possible. This prevents a child from feeling forced to choose one person over the other, and it makes it easier for your son or daughter to create memories that will be cherished forever. When you aren’t with your child, it may be possible to keep yourself in good spirits by baking cookies, listening to Christmas songs or simply taking a hot bath.

The Weather Can Make Everything Feel Worse

November and December are among the darkest and coldest of the 12 months. A lack of sunlight can cause a person to become depressed, anxious and tired regardless of whether he or she sleeps at night. Therefore, you could be more likely to be in a precarious state of mind even if everything was perfect in your relationship.

It may be in your best interest to speak with a therapist or take other steps to overcome any health issues caused by a cold or dark environment. For instance, you may want to consider adding artificial ultraviolet lighting in your bedroom or home. A portable light could help you be more productive at work or help brighten your mood while away from home. Our Jenkintown divorce lawyer may be able to offer other suggestions to help you through this difficult time in your life.

Try to Avoid Contact With Your Former Spouse

Looking at pictures of your former spouse online can be an easy way to become frustrated or upset. You should also refrain from calling or texting your ex unless your children are the subject. It is important to remember that everyone moves on from the end of a relationship in different ways. Therefore, the fact that the person who used to be your husband or wife may be with someone new doesn’t mean that he or she is over you.

It is also important to note that anything that you say or do could be used against you in a divorce hearing. The same is true in a child custody or support hearing. Therefore, you should keep your comments to yourself until the case is over. If you have to tell someone what you found online, it may be best to consult with our Jenkintown divorce lawyer. She may be able to use it as evidence in court.

If you are looking for help with your divorce case, contact the Law Office of Joanne Kleiner in Jenkintown today. You can reach our office by calling (215) 886-1266 or sending a fax to (215) 886-2670.