Divorce and Family Law Office of Joanne Kleiner

Divorce Lawyer Joanne Kleiner

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Feb 14, 2012

Types of Child Custody in Pennsylvania

One of the most difficult issues of a divorce is child custody. Who gets custody of the minor children, visitation and determining parenting time can be difficult even under ideal conditions. However, custody issues can usually be revisited as circumstances change, and an experienced Pennsylvania family law attorney can help you obtain custody modifications when appropriate.

The types of child custody in Pennsylvania are as follows:

• Temporary custody (de facto). This is different from court-ordered custody and refers to who has custody of the child currently. If you want to maintain custody during litigation you must file a request for temporary custody with the court.

• Sole custody. Sole custody is when one parent is given both legal and physical custody of the child and the child has only one primary residence. Legal custody is the right to make decisions for your child concerning education, religious upbringing, discipline, medical care and other significant matters concerning your child’s welfare. Physical custody means your child lives primarily with you and you make the decisions about your child’s day-to-day needs.

• Split custody. Split custody refers to a case in which there are two children and each parent has full physical custody of one of the children.

• Joint custody. Under joint custody you could have joint legal custody, when both parents share the control and care of the child but that child has one primary residence; shared physical custody, when your child has two residences and spends at least 35 percent of his or her time with the other parent; or you can work out a customized joint custody agreement with your ex-spouse that is a combination of shared physical and joint legal custody.

Get your child custody questions answered

At the core of child custody issues are your child’s best interests. To talk to a caring and compassionate family law attorney, contact us online or call (215) 886-1266 to discuss your child custody matter.

Jun 20, 2011

5 Mistakes People Make When Contemplating Divorce

People contemplating divorce should think ahead. Divorce is not something that should be entered into blindly. You need to take the time to evaluate your situation, and if possible, take the time to put yourself in the best position for a divorce.

To assist you, we would like to provide you with the information you need to avoid five common mistakes that other people make when contemplating a divorce:

1. Make sure you do not rush into a divorce. That is not to say that divorce may not be right for you, but it does mean that you should take care to make informed decisions and protect yourself and your future from adverse financial consequences, to the extent possible.
2. Do not go on a spending spree. Rather, take any excess money you have to buy down your debts. The less you owe, the better shape you will be in when you divorce.
3. Consider mediation or the collaborative law process, especially if you have children. Collaborative law in a divorce will help ease the stress on you and your children, as well as give you much more control of the terms of your divorce.
4. Make sure property and credit cards in your name, and if possible, establish your credit. You do not want to find yourself with no credit after a divorce.
5. Gather as much information about your finances as possible, including account numbers, contact information and balance history for all insurance policies, bank accounts, investments and retirement plans. Do not go into a divorce blind, you need to know as much as possible about your family finances.

Divorce can be difficult. Oftentimes individuals want to rush through a divorce and move on with their lives. However, you will find that a little time and contemplation now, may end up providing you with a much brighter and financially secure future. If you are letting emotion cloud your judgment, consult with your family law attorney and divorce lawyer. They should be able to ground you and ensure you have the information and fortitude to make sound decisions.

At Joanne E. Kleiner & Associates, Ms. Kleiner is a family law attorney and divorce lawyer who brings more than 25 years experience in family law and divorce to the table, including collaborative law experience. She is uniquely qualified to help you understand your options, properly advise you and help you achieve your goals. To discuss your divorce or family law matter in confidence with an experienced lawyer, please call Ms. Kleiner at 215-886-1266, or fill out our online intake form.

Sep 15, 2010

Children Are Often the Victims in a Divorce

Children, especially young children, often believe a divorce is their fault. Parents involved in a divorce can find themselves focusing only on themselves, and forget that their children may be confused, hurt and scared.

Take the time to talk to your children, reassure them that everything is fine and that regardless of any differences between you and your spouse, both of you still love them. Some additional steps you can take to ease the prospect of a divorce on children:

  1. Take the time to explain to your children that any problems you and your spouse may be having are not their fault. Sometimes, a good approach is to explain to your children that people may sometimes have differences of opinion, and in some cases those differences just cannot be worked out.
  2. Do not argue or fight in front of the children. Remember, children are not deaf, they can hear, even behind closed doors, if the volume of the conversation is high enough.
  3. Do not bad-mouth your spouse in front of your children. Remember, he or she is still their parent too, and your children love both of you.
  4. Do not make your children take sides; they may resent you for that. They will also feel that they are being disloyal to you by continuing to love their other parent, and it is confusing to them.
  5. Never use your children as messengers or “go-betweens”.
  6. Constantly reinforce that everything will be all right, especially if the children are young.
  7. Make sure you don’t ignore your children. They need to know that their routines are not being affected (to the extent that is possible). In addition, any extra attention both of you can give to your children will help alleviate any fears they may have.

For divorces involving children, we suggest considering utilizing the collaborative law process for your divorce.

Collaborative law may provide you with an acceptable alternative to stressful litigation. The collaborative law process is premised on the parties working together to resolve conflict. The collaborative process encourages the parties to work together, with their attorneys, toward a mutual agreement that everyone can live with.

The collaborative law process is typically less stressful on children, gives you more control over the terms of the divorce, and is less emotionally taxing on you.

At Joanne E. Kleiner & Associates, Ms. Kleiner is a family law attorney and divorce lawyer who brings more than 25 years experience in family law and divorce to the table, including collaborative law experience. She is uniquely qualified to help you understand your options, properly advise you and help you achieve your goals. To discuss your divorce or family law matter in confidence with an experienced lawyer, please call Ms. Kleiner at 215-886-1266, or fill out our online intake form.