Q: Why is it important to consult an attorney when considering divorce?
“I’m assuming that you have lots of questions and lots of anxiety about going through a divorce. And I get that. It’s not an easy time. It’s a really difficult time, and it’s something that’s really difficult to go through. But it doesn’t have to be the end of the world. It can totally be a new beginning if you go about it in the right way. And that’s why consultations with an attorney are so important. I don’t give free consultations. And the reason that I don’t is because I sit down with you and listen to your story, go through your situation and figure out what the best options are for you in your particular situation. And it helps me to get to know you. It helps you to get to know me. And it helps us to get an idea of how we’re going to go about planning for your future.”
Q: How can staying out of court benefit families during divorce?
“In my many years of practice, I’ve come to the conclusion that families do a lot better when they can stay out of court. Besides the fact that they can save money by staying out of court, they also save their families a lot of upset and anguish. Kids always know what’s going on, even when people think they’re being discreet. Children are very affected by what’s happening. And it really is a better outcome for everyone if they can resolve it on their own and stay away from the court system.”
Q: What are common misconceptions about going to court for divorce?
“People have a lot of misconceptions about what going to court means. They think that they’re angry and they’re hurt. And so when they go into court, they think that the judge is going to tell them how wonderful they are and they were perfect and how badly he or she feels for them and that their spouse is probably the most dastardly person to walk the face of the earth. That doesn’t happen. Judges try to be very even-handed. And not blame one person over another. So people think that they’re going to go into court and get some type of emotional satisfaction. And that really doesn’t happen. And they end up disappointed. And they’ve spent a lot of money. And they’ve put their families through a lot of heartache. And it’s really not necessary.”
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